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hate in you and why do you hate or love yourself for it. Thus, go deep this way and try to analyze what is truly your flaw. How do you deal with this the right way? You must be kind to yourself and sustain a neutral expression. Tip 2 - Reflect On Your Flaws Reflecting on your flaws can even mean asking opinions from the people who would tell you things upfront. They could be your well-wishers or someone who is around you and has made an observation. While you have already done a self-review in front of the mirror, it is good to know what do your people say so that you have a better picture of your flaws. If you want to deal with this in the most sensible way then you just need to pacify yourself saying “It is okay I am brave enough to accept what is not wow in me” This should be your spirit Tip 3 - Renovate Or Demolish Your Flaws versa, why cannot a mindset or thoughts change the same way? They surely can! For sure when you finally know what are your flaws instead of looking at them as flaws you can think of renovating them and turning them into areas of opportunity, isn’t it? Be brave and take it up as a challenge to not let your flaw be one 6 months from now. How would you practice this? For instance, your flaw is to yell and get hyper with little things. You need to think over an action plan and put it in place to reach your goal of turning your “yelling” flaw into a “peaceful” strength. Remember that you do not have to push yourself too hard, do it if you feel like it. Tip 4 - Stop Expecting Results You need to give yourself a pat if you have attempted to know your flaws, reflect upon them and work on it. Say you have not been able to change yourself, you just need to relax and say to yourself that it is okay because in the end what matters is you sow the seeds. Do not let your patience get tested. Wait for the right time and just let it be. When day can change tonight and vice- SEPTEMBER 2019 | WWW.WISHESH.NET