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Do not expect yourself to change instantly if
it is not happening. The more you control and
hold yourself, the more you would come in the
pressure of getting results of what you have
been trying.
Tip 5 -
Admire Beauty In Your Flaws
Motivating yourself and trying to look through
what’s doing good to you in the worst phase is
a way of turning your worst phase into a good
one. Learn to see that there is good in your flaw
too. It is simple, think of this, how would you
know that you have to improve had you been
perfect or what else could have been a better
way to make you a better person than getting
over a flaw would?
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So you see how there is beauty in the flaw.
Another way of looking at it is because you
have a flaw in something you are good at
something else. Think of this, how would you be
good at something else if you did not have this
flaw? While this is tricky it still makes sense.
Think of how is a Lotus, it grows in dirty water,
yet we can see that it has a beautiful flaw. Think
of how the thorns of a rose flower prick, yet, it is
a flower that signifies love and one of the most
special. When nature is not free of flaws, how
would we be flawless?
Tip 6 - Acknowledge Your Flaws - Do
Not Run Away From Them!
The flaws you have might be haunting to you
and you might be in “ I dislike myself for this”
space. It is wrong if you have always been
there. Why would you not like yourself for flaws,
don’t your strengths matter?
It is good to acknowledge and know them, it is
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one form of acceptance. But, just cos you
know your flaws you cannot run away from
them and let it eat you up in a way that you
run away from them. Never run! Just walk
past your flaws!
Tip 7 - Do Not Lose Your
Originality In Search For Perfection
Do not wait for someone else to come and
tell you this that you are not the only one
who has flaws and obligated that for survival
you need perfection by your side. If you
have always thought this way then its time
for a change.
Be who you want to be, if you think your
flaw is not a flaw at some point then it is
not. It is about what you feel in your head.
Mind you, if you think is the best with people
is what you need to work on then you are
mistaking the true definition of perfection.
When defining perfection you got to be