,Do little things for others everyday which have positive impact on them, the little things got a lot of impact on the people around you and it’s from these little things that great things come out of, it shows passion, love and concern about them they feel cared for and always remembered, they feel motivated and they will try as well to keep your relationship intact and worth lasting
Always be loyal thus firm in allegiance letting them know what they are supposed to know, never lying to them no matter what may be always standing with them showing your loyalty always in the case that this creates good impression of you to others and keeps the relationship in touch as well as flourished.
Stay in better touch with people who matter to you always knowing their wellbeingness, their whereabouts , how they are faring on among other things, pay them a visit even if not necessary just to say hi, be with them for a while, share with them one or two things to keep that relationship alive and intact, this helps in relating with another by knowing the changes that might have had taken place, help them to solve something that might have had overweighed them and this helps you know how to relate with them at every particular moment.
Keep your promises and tell the truth always, try hard no matter small the promises you might have made are just keep them it helps one develop trust in you in the manner of keeping your word, helps them build confidence in you, being truthful in whichever way even if the truth may hurt them it hurts for a while for real friends and with time things come back to normal very ironical to lies said to impress for a while and turns into sores when the truth has finally been realized, the truth here is the foremost and strongest pillar of faith and trust which is also an essential in a relationship that is meant to last.
Give out to others what you wish to receive back as it is said that what you give out to the world will always come back to you, do them your level good and best to ensure that it keeps them smiling. support them whenever there is need of you to be there both physically financially and emotionally or psychologically
It will always reciprocate back to you and you will enjoy the living with the people you are in a relationship with.
Say what you mean and mean what you say rather than preaching water and drinking wine thus being contrary to what you say and what is expected out of you as an individual this helps them develop reliability in you mostly in decision making and general advice because they believe that you are always at the tip of your word without flipping through.
Allow others to make their own decisions by not acting to be the final person assuming that you know everything and that you are always right and you don’t need objection. Other peoples decision can bring an improvement or two into your relationship since every person has one new idea that the other person doesn’t have and therefore should be allowed and appreciated in decision making.
Talk a little less and listen more this will help you learn and develop because mostly people talk only of what they know but listening allows you learn new ideas therefore listen more from pieces of advices and whatever they may have for you to share this is also known as turn taking which is another great component of relationship.
Leave alone petty arguments since they act as draw backs ending up creating a mountain of problems and issues that were not there even in the first place. Always be the first one to act wise and pull out arguments, you prove to be strong and mature enough to handle issues and ensure that the arguments never arise or are limited.