Pay attention to your relationship with yourself without waiting others to act on your behalf, solve what you are supposed to solve alone without letting the third and fourth person come in to correct you and help you solve it unless its extreme which is supposed never to be. Be yourself by examining yourself and acting the real you with all attention in it. Divided attention always kills it and tears it apart.
Ignore unconstructive hurtful commentary whether they are made jokingly or seriously, ignoring them helps you get over them because they can break you down to trashes and may as well bring out the negative side of yourself since they raise arguments which may end up in quarrels and even explode out into fights which is never healthy in relationships.
If you kept all this, then I bet you will enjoy the outcome always.
Written by
Zopher Obuto
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