Windsor Parent - May/June 2015 Issue | Page 15

Summer is a Fantastic time at Head of the Class Education Centre! Headlass of theCCTION A EDU OUR EVER POPULAR STAR WARS CAMP Science, math. literacy & drama through characters & themes of the Star Wars saga TRANSITION TO GRADE 9 PROGRAMME: Help your grade 8 student get ready for high school RETAIN AND GAIN SUMMER TUTORING Flexible scheduling for this class is available to accommodate family vacations Divorce – especially when children are involved – can be a difficult process. “How likely you are to recover from your divorce and find true love and happiness again?” she asks clients. Unless you complete the past to make room for the future, you would be unavailable to the possibility into the future. You have to resolve old resentments that you have for someone in a previous relationship. Sometimes the misguided loyalty that your past relationship will always be your one and only can keep you stuck. Even though your marriage is over, you might be still honouring your marriage vows—holding on to it so that you do not get hurt ever again. Mediation is another way to help couples navigate their divorce in order to save money. A mediator can help you as a couple come to an agreement as to how you will divide your assets, and how much you will pay in child and spousal support you will create your separation agreement that is beneficial for your family moving forward. Kay also helps couples develop a workable co-parenting strategy; she encourages couples to deal with as many issues in regards to good parenting and the steps they should take to honour their agreement. One of the biggest issues that most parents deal with is respecting the time that was agreed upon for pick up and drop off of your children, which creates unnecessary conflict. This is a non-issue that becomes a toxic relationship dynamic because the person waiting feels like they are losing personal power and is being disrespected. So how do you avoid it? If you are a couple planning to untie the knot and would like an amicable divorce that keeps your legal cost down and maintain strong co-parenting skills to grow emotionally healthy children, contact Kay Curtis at 519-980-7929 or visit PositiveCoachingBalance.com for more information. Kaysandra Curtis is holding a Relationship Workshop with relationship coach Jacque ́