Seriously, I almost fell for it until I remembered everything he had put me through and that this was time to walk away from this cycle and to always keep my eyes open for narcissist alert and to never fall victim of a narcissist ever again.
So, while you are working on getting ready to leave the narcissist, you will need to work on building yourself worth and being able to walk away from a narcissist means that you will need personal strength, self-worth and self-love.
These are things that the narcissist will try to destroy in you. The victim will need to develop their own concept of reality one that is different from what the narcissist has tried to do to them and understand that nothing that has happened is their fault. Just you know, all of this will take time and a lot of hard work… after everything the narcissist has put the victim through. It is crucial that while you are working on these growths; you should hide all of your growth from the narcissist.
The narcissist will do whatever it takes to break you down again and again, as many times as they get to.
Once you do leave, you must cut off all communication with the narcissist. You must never communicate with them directly. If you have children, you should find someone else that can go-between for any communication or for pick-ups and drop-offs, because If you allow yourself to be lured back into talking with the narcissist, you run the risk of being pulled back into their web and their trap again. You will run the risk of starting the entire process again.
CREATING YOUR NEW NARCISSISTIC FREE LIFE
This is your time to recreate your life. It’s your time to bring back the joy that you once had and the self-worth that you once had. You can gain back your sense of self, your independence, your self-love, lost friendships, family and self-worth. All of these will help you become a stronger person and break entirely away from the narcissist.
However, I will briefly narrate how I survived and overcame the whole trauma and thrived to becoming successful and I hope this journey of mine will help you recover and create a new life. Actually, I remember waking up and saying things has to change. So, I went on the path of personal development where I came across the book 'The