everything that you wanted and then will start the entire process over again to break the victim down entirely and then leave.
If the victim leaves the narcissist, it will most definitely start the entire process over again. They will start from the phase of the mask, trying to lure them back in and convincing them that things will be different. The narcissist will never admit that they did something wrong unless they think that it will make the victim come back, so they can work on destroying you again.
Be very careful when trying to leave, the narcissist will call the police, the victim’s friends and families and lie on them, even in times the narcissist abuses the victim, they would be the one to call.
If you are not 100% ready to leave the narcissist and to cut off all communication from them do not try because any contact will draw you back in, and once you come back, everything you have been through will be repeated, and much worse...
WHEN THE VICTIM IS READY TO LEAVE THE NARCISSIST
When victim is ready to leave, or think they are getting ready to leave a narcissist, it is crucial that they do not let the narcissist know. Secure your money in your bank account, do not let the narcissist know that you recognize they are a narcissist. This will only result in either the phase of the mask or them attempting to gaslight you into changing your view or them running off with your money from your joint account.
You must protect yourself, finances and your children in the process of preparing to leave, and you must be able to acknowledge that you are a victim and that you are not crazy. This is not your fault, and you deserve to have a full and happy life.
It was one of the feeling I struggled with… I remember when my ex tried to convince me to close my business and turn in my luxury car, when that did not work he went and empty my bank account. As he then told the police that I threaten to kill him with a gun, they almost execute me in front of my home, he did everything to break me that day but nothing he did worked, and when he saw that he could not break me again he attempted suicide in his last attempt to wheeled me back in.