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section update Acceptance Speech of C. Edward Dobbs at the Atlanta Bar Association Bankruptcy Law Section David Pollard Award Luncheon on May 11, 2012 T hank you, Al (Alfred S. Lurey introduced Ed), for that generous introduction. Most of you know that Al is a past recipient of the David Pollard Award and it is was my privilege to introduce him on that occasion in 2007. To follow in his footsteps, and the steps of others who are past award recipients, is indeed an honor. For that honor, I would like to thank the members of the Atlanta Bar Bankruptcy Section for selecting me as this year's recipient. As I look out into the audience, I am truly humbled, for I see so many who are equally if not more deserving of this award. Next, I would like to recognize those members of my family who are here today. My wife Elly, who for the past 4 years has represented District 53 in the Georgia House of Representatives. And my two daughters – Peyten, an English teacher at The Westminster Schools who is to be married next month, and Whitney, an advertising and marketing manager at The Morrison Agency in Atlanta. My son Palmer, who lives in New York, could not make it to this event, and perhaps that's just as well as he is easily embarrassed by his father's speeches. Finally, I would like to recognize and thank my colleagues at Parker, Hudson, Rainer & Dobbs who are in attendance and especially my faithful, competent, diligent and reliable assistant, Lori Pilon. Experience has shown time and again that it is often foolhardy to entrust a microphone into the hand of an attorney. That is especially the case when the audience is not a jury, the topic is not legal, and the attorney does not stand before a judge with a time clock. In any event, I will endeavor not to take advantage of the circumstances that give me a mike for a moment. This award has prompted me to reflect upon 62 years of life, of which 38 years have been dedicated to the practice of law in Atlanta; to take stock of where I have come from; and to ask myself a question often asked by the ancient Latins, "Quo Vadis" – or "Where are you going?" Not to worry -- I don't intend to bore you with stories of my youth or my proverbial bucket list. But I would like to address what my reflections have called to mind that is applicable to all of us. And that is the life journey that each of us is on and the journey metaphor that is so pervasive throughout literature since the earliest of times. The journey is a fundamental pattern of human experience; and in literature focuses upon the personal transformation of the traveler in the course of 34 THE ATLANTA LAWYER June/July 2012 the journey. These adventure stories provide magnified versions of choices that all of us are called upon to make in our own lives. They reveal to us the truth that, while it is good to have an end to journey towards, it is the journey itself that matters in the end. In truth, the journey is the reward. The journey in art and life share similar patterns -- the first stage is birth and nurturing; the second is the separation from the security of our family and friends, a call to adventure where we cross the threshold into a new world; the next stage is the initiation, where we are challenged, encounter a wise teacher, attain a more mature understanding of life and emerge forever altered by these experiences; and the final stage is the return to home, with an emphasis upon family and reflection and preparation for the end, as every grand tour must end. How we conduct ourselves on our personal odyssey not only affects how we are perceived, but also defines who we are. Our steps along the way cannot be retraced. Omar Khyyam in his famous Rubaiyat poem took note of the immutable record that we write for ourselves in our life travels, saying: The Moving Finger writes, and having writ, Moves on: nor all your piety nor Wit Shall lure it back to cancel half a line, Nor all your tears wash out a Word of it. The journey theme is prominent in such early works as Homer's Iliad and Odyssey, Virgil's Aeneid, Bunyan's Pilgrims Progress, Chaucer's Canterbury Tales, and Swift's Gulliver's Travels. We see it again in more recent works, such as Conrad's Heart of Darkness, Kerouac's On the Road and Faulkner's As I Lay Dying. And who can forget Ishmael in Melville's Moby Dick, who, bored with the life of a land lubber, hired himself out to a whaling ship and was the sole survivor on a riveting voyage with Captain Ahab. Or Leopold Bloom whose day-long journey through Dublin is convey