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away. It is normal to develop friendships with the people you are surrounded by. The key is to carefully choose the individuals with whom you develop a close relationship. Look at the person and ask yourself some honest questions: • Is this person currently in a growing relationship with God? • Does he or she exhibit behaviors and actions that reflect a relationship with God? • Does this person encourage my relationship with God and hold me accountable for my actions? • What has God told me about my relationship with this person through His Holy Spirit, the Word, or Christian counsel? You may feel like you are automatically thrown or forced into a relationship with the people you are surrounded by, especially in a work or school situation. While reflecting Christ and His love to everyone is always important, sometimes you have to look outside your comfort zone to find healthy relationships. The truth is that you choose who you spend your time with outside of work or schooL Choose wisely, knowing that the people around you are playing an intricate role in your path to freedom without their even knowing it. Close the Door Closing the door to an eating disorder involves taking daily practical steps to prevent old thoughts, habits, or patterns from taking control of your life again. Acting on the following tips will not come naturally and will require consistent repetition 53