away. It is normal to develop friendships with the people you
are surrounded by. The key is to carefully choose the individuals
with whom you develop a close relationship. Look at the person
and ask yourself some honest questions:
•
Is this person currently in a growing relationship with
God?
•
Does he or she exhibit behaviors and actions that reflect a
relationship with God?
• Does this person encourage my relationship with God
and hold me accountable for my actions?
• What has God told me about my relationship with this
person through His Holy Spirit, the Word, or Christian
counsel?
You may feel like you are automatically thrown or forced into
a relationship with the people you are surrounded by, especially
in a work or school situation. While reflecting Christ and His
love to everyone is always important, sometimes you have to
look outside your comfort zone to find healthy relationships.
The truth is that you choose who you spend your time with
outside of work or schooL Choose wisely, knowing that the
people around you are playing an intricate role in your path to
freedom without their even knowing it.
Close the Door
Closing the door to an eating disorder involves taking daily
practical steps to prevent old thoughts, habits, or patterns from
taking control of your life again. Acting on the following tips
will not come naturally and will require consistent repetition
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