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Chapter 3: Emotional ClearingChapter 3: Emotional Clearing After doing your emotional clearing, replace your old eating habits with healthier habits like meditation, exercise, or reading a book. As with everything contained in this book, don't try to change your habits all at once; it will be much easier to do, and you will get much better long term results, if you only try to change your habits one at a time. Every two weeks you might pick an old habit to change; for example, you might start with your habit of snacking on popcorn while watching movies at home, and instead find something else tasty and easy to prepare that serves as a suitable replacement (personally, I like to nuke some broccoli and eat it with a lot of cayenne pepper sauce and a little bit of low fat ranch dressing – it's a great TV snack!) Programs to Check:  I have to eat when I watch TV (FALSE.)  I have to eat when I watch movies (FALSE.)  I have to eat to be social (FALSE.)  I have to drink alcohol to be social (FALSE.)  I know how to celebrate without eating (TRUE.)  I know what it feels like to celebrate without eating (TRUE.)  I have to eat to reward myself (FALSE.) Fear of Intimacy  The single most common emotional reason that we carry excess fat is an underlying subconscious fear of intimacy. By adding excess fat, you can make yourself less attractive to potential romantic partners, eliminating the threat that you will be betrayed, abandoned, or otherwise hurt by letting someone get close to you. Victims of sexual abuse and sexual assault also commonly add a lot of excess fat for the same reason: fat serves to protect from the danger of being intimate (physically and/or emotionally) with other people. As long as you have powerful belief systems that tell you that it is dangerous to be attractive, or thin, or healthy, you will sabotage your ability to do the things 48