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yourself and the conflict will continue. That person has collided
with you, but if you collide with him, then it just goes to prove
that you too are blind.
I understand the prakruti, so even if you seek to clash
with me, I will avoid it. I will not let it happen. Otherwise, both
will suffer in the collision. Therefore, recognize the prakruti of
everyone in the home.
Conflicts do not occur every day. They only occur when
your past karma are ready to give their effects. Adjust when
this happens. If a fight occurs with your wife, make her happy
afterwards by taking her out for dinner. From now on the strain
in your relationship should not linger.
You should eat whatever comes to you on your plate.
That, which comes in front of you, is your account. God has
said that if you avoid eating what comes on your plate, you will
be at a loss. So even if there are things on my plate that I do
not particularly care to eat, I will eat some of it anyway.
How can you be called a man, if you do not know how
to adjust? Those who adjust to their circumstances will not have
any conflicts at home. If you want to enjoy the benefit of your
wife’s company, you must adjust. Otherwise you will create
enmity.
People’s lives must be guided by certain principles. One
must act according to circumstances at hand. He who adjusts
according to the circumstances is to be applauded and
respected. If one knows how to adjust in every situation, then
liberation is at hand. This is a great weapon.
Disadjustment Itself Is Foolishness
Whatever you say should be acceptable to the other
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