even ready to be In a committed
relationship? Did I know what it
took to handle the responsibilities
of being someone’s girlfriend and
future wife? Could I possibly still
hold on to past acquaintances
while still being all in with my
partner? Should I just leave this
man alone and not mix him up in
my indecisiveness to avoid hurting
him? I had some soul searching
and soul tie breaking to do. Love
was so genuine it allowed my
partner to hear and understand all
these concerns and still love me;
know and accept my past as well
as present , and still love me. This
love, has been proactive and solely
concerned on building me up as
a person, interested in my growth
and well being. This 20 year old
love has taught me a life lesson.
Whether its here for a reason, a
season or a lifetime I now know
what it feels like to take time out to
get to know myself. Its even more
beautiful having someone to share
it with. When I stopped looking
for love on the outside, I was able
to find and attract it within.
Morgan Myers
30’s
T
here is no greater feeling than
love. I cannot be wrong on
this as every song, TV show or
social media drama is all about people
trying to find others to love them.
We may not agree with their ways or
the types of love they may be looking
for, but at the end of the day we are
all looking for someone to love us.
Keeping and nurturing that love is
where most of us fall short.
There are 2 important habits I make
sure to keep so that love does not elude
me.
Love yourself first. It took me some
time to get to this place where I could
appreciate all the perfect imperfections
I was born with. Comparing myself to
others I always felt inadequate and did
not feel good enough for the people I
was dating.
Insecurity is a terrible thing when you
are trying to keep love in your life.
Eventually I learned to look inward
and realize that loving me was more
attractive to people. When you love
yourself your natural confidence
comes out and that is something that
no one can shake.
Stay Honest. Honesty is the best policy.
It’s an old saying, but it keeps eluding
most of us. There is no reason not to
tell people how you really feel. I’m not
talking about with cheating, money
or other big relationship issues. I am
talking about everyday honest. I don’t
like what you said to me… honest.
I am feeling a certain way today…
honest. They may not like it, but they
have to respect it. Love and respect are
serious partners in relationships.
If we could all work towards loving
ourselves and staying honest with
people we will not have to look for
love. It will surely find us.
Shannel The Sex CEO Parker