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infatuation and attraction . Infatuation and attraction arises from the coming together of compatible atoms . If these atoms do not match exactly , then nothing will happen . So this is all scientific . Infatuation and attraction is the nature of the body . It is the nature of the atoms .
Infatuation and attraction can either be above normal or below normal . Love is within normality ; it remains constant without changing . Infatuation and attraction belongs to the inanimate property of the body , the non-Self and not the real Self .
When one finds harmony and oneness in this world , there is a reason behind it . It is because of the properties of the atoms of infatuation and attraction , but one can never tell what will happen at any given moment . As long as there are matching atoms , the attraction will be there and harmony will prevail . But when the atoms do not match , there will be repulsion , which gives rise to hatred . Therefore wherever there is infatuation and attraction , without doubt there is also hatred . In infatuation and attraction there is no awareness of what is beneficial for one , whereas in love complete awareness is there .
This is the science of atoms . The Self has nothing to do with it . But people are under an illusion about the attraction of the atoms . They believe that they have been attracted . The Self never gets attracted .
Illusion Versus Reality
It is because of the attraction like that between the magnet and the pin that you think that you are attracted because of your love . But there is no such thing as love in this attraction .
Questioner : So don ’ t these people know whether it is love or not ?
Dadashri : Everyone understands love . Even a two-year-