Pure Love
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repulsion and where there is repulsion, there is no love. Even
the worldly love should not increase or decrease to this extent.
It should be within limits. A Gnani’s love is divine love, which
never increases or decreases.
Love should exist everywhere. Only love should prevail
in the home. Where there is love, one does not see fault in
others. When a man acts like a husband, it is egoism, not love.
No matter how many mistakes there are, in love one endures
them all. Do you understand that?
Questioner: Yes Dada.
Dadashri: So if there is a mistake, you have to let it go
for the sake of love. If you love your son, then you cannot look
at his mistakes, moreover you have to reassure him that
everything is going to be fine. Love endures everything.
This is all infatuation and attraction! One moment the wife
will embrace her husband and the next she will criticize him.
There is no criticism in love. In love, one cannot look at any
faults. In love you do not see faults in a person, ever. Do these
people truly have love? Reject such a love.
You will not see real love in this time cycle. You will not
see real love. One man told me, ‘I love her so much. Even then
she insults and rejects me!’ I told him that it was not love. No
one rejects real love.
The Husband Looks For Sense, The Wife
Looks For Wisdom
Real worldly love is when one completely sacrifices and
surrenders, without regards to his or her ‘safe side’ - selfish
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