giving in terms of sexual
overtures which may not be
their own favorites but which
their partners would like to
try out. In the process, such
acts of non-sexual affection
strengthen the emotional
connection between partners
and thus act as important
investments needed for
mutually fulfilling sex life.
SETH MEYERS PSY.D.
ON HOW COUPLES CAN
COPE WITH DIFFERENT
LIBIDOS, SEXUAL
DESIRE
JOY FEELINGS MAG!
Using a simple scale can help
you figure out who's right or wrong - for you.
I’ve learned from counseling
countless men and women
that everyone needs to know
what I call their
‘Sex Number.’ Simply put,
on a scale of 1 to 10, how
sexual do you consider
yourself? I use a simple 1 to
10 scale frequently when
working with clients to help
them figure out where they
fall on this basic scale.
Knowing your sex number is
crucial for many reasons. If
you’re single, you need to ask
yourself what number range
you want your future partner
to be in. Once you’re in a
relationship and tied down
because of the
emotional attachment,