what is necessary - like a
warm relaxing bath or a visit
to the spa – to get into the
mood.
Redistribute commitments
at work and home
One of the most common
forms of sexual
incompatibility is differing
sex drive – when your partner
does not want sex as much or
as frequently as you do. More
often than not low libido is
caused by mental and
physical exhaustion brought
about by pressures at work or
at home. Here the higherdesire partner can take on
some of the parental
responsibilities and domestic
chores which probably leave
the other partner too wornout to look forward to sex. At
the same time the lowerdesire partner can hire help or
delegate responsibilities to be
able to enjoy some leisure
and pamper oneself, all of
which are great for putting
one in the mood for sex. If
JOY FEELINGS MAG!
stress or long hours at work
are the usual causes of low
libido, see if you can take on
fewer commitments or keep
weekends absolutely free for
your partner.
Don’t give up non-sexual
affection
One of the first fatalities of
sexual incompatibility in a
relationship is romance.
Couples begin to display
fewer evidence of non-sexual
affection towards each other
like kissing, holding hands on
a walk or cuddling in front of
the TV. While one partner
fears that any instance of
cuddling or hugging will be
interpreted as a sexual
invitation, the other may feels
no need of showing affection
since he/she knows sex will
not follow. However the truth
is that engaging in acts of
non-sexual acts of affection is
crucial to enriching a
couple’s sex life. It makes
both partners feel loved and
cherished and hence more