needs and shows a desire to
work at a relationship. And
finally it is certainly a better
option as compared to sitting
and brooding or worse,
turning to affairs and
divorces.
Show goodwill
Once you reach a
compromise, avoid sniping or
making hurtful comments at
each other about how much
you are sacrificing or how
you have got a raw deal in
the relationship. Very often
these little but cruel remarks
over time can do as much if
not more damage to a
relationship than a one-time
full-blown fight. Obviously
you haven’t got what you
exactly wanted but remember
neither has your partner.
Rather try to work out issues
with good will, a little bit of
generosity and keep your
sight trained on the ultimate
end of saving your
relationship from a breakup.
JOY FEELINGS MAG!
Plan sex dates
It is difficult to have mutually
satisfying sex when you are
in a hurry or thinking about
the company presentation
that is scheduled for the
evening. One of the best
ways around this is to plan
intimate sessions well in
advance. Both you and your
partner will then have time to
try out the various things that
you want. A long, relaxed
foreplay is highly
recommended for such
situations and try to
incorporate as many kinds of
stimulation as possible –
visual like dressing up,
imaginary like role-playing
and auditory like indulging in
pillow talk. Scheduling sex in
fact works well for partners
with differing sex drives –
the one who want more sex
can look forward to a night of
fireworks while the one who
wants it less gets a break
from fending off amorous
advances and can even do