That kind of thinking is a
huge blind spot for many
women.
(Just imagine if men said
the same thing: “I need a
woman who is smarter,
stronger, and more
successful than I am.” No
one would ever be able to
settle down because
everyone would be trying
to trade up!)
This creates a conundrum
for women who consider
themselves in the 90th
percentile of everything.
In other words, the
number of men who are
taller, smarter, richer, is
going to be a small
fraction of the population.
(Consider: 15% of men
are 6 feet tall. 10% have
masters degrees. 2% make
over 200K, etc.)
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Furthermore, these prime
specimens of man meat
are NOT necessarily
looking to date female
versions of themselves.
You may want these alpha
male studs, but these
alpha male studs often
prefer women who are
less busy, more available,
less critical, and lower
maintenance.
Therein lies the friction.
What happens when you
catch one of these Bill
Clinton/Tiger Woods type
men?
Well, consider the
personality type of a guy
who is busy, driven, and
wealthy. He’s demanding.
He’s used to getting his
way. He’s a conqueror.
He’s not big on
compromise. He doesn’t