it should be readily
apparent by now: there’s
not necessarily something
wrong with YOU, nor is
every man in your life
fatally flawed. The
problem is how you two
work as a couple.
Two great ingredients
don’t necessarily taste
good together.
Lobster and cinnamon
come to mind.
So what we’re here to do
is try to reduce this to a
simple science, finding a
man who’s not just a great
guy, but finding a man
who’s a great fit for your
life.
That may sound a little
cold and cerebral to you,
but I hate to tell you,
following your heart has
caused pretty much all of
Joy feelings magazine
your relationship troubles.
If love is blind, it’s my
job to take the blinders off
and let you know how to
make slight adjustments
that will lead you to
greater happiness.
And let me be the first to
tell you, greater happiness
doesn’t rest in choosing a
guy who’s just like you.
My mantra to women is
to look for a
complement, not a clone.
This may not come
naturally to you,
especially if you’re a
smart, strong, successful
woman who thinks that
you “deserve” a man who
is smarter, stronger, and
more successful than you
are.
Essentially, you’re trying
to date yourself, with a
penis.