JOY FEELINGS MAGAZINE may-june 2015 | Page 14

think the rules apply to him. And he’s got an endless supply of female suitors. Add those all up, and you have a man who is really hard to land for a successful forty-year relationship. These prime specimens of man meat are NOT necessarily looking to date female versions of themselves The only way to land a man like that is togive him what he can’t get anywhere else. What he can’t get from his guy friends. What he can’t get from his work. What he can’t get from his hobbies. That’s why he’d date you, because you provide an element to his life that is unique and special. Joy feelings magazine He wants a woman who is nurturing and thoughtful and supportive and patient and fun and playful and sexy. This doesn’t mean that he is turned off or intimidated by your intelligence or ambition, but it’s merely a bonus. After all, he’s surrounded by smart, driven people all day long. When he gets home, he needs to turn off his business mind. He doesn’t need to be challenged or criticized. He needs to laugh. He’s doesn’t care about your doctorate or your triathlon medals. He’s got his own. And if you perpetually think that the more impressive you are, the