Joy feelings magazine JFMAGAUG-OCT | Page 71

will give them a delightful sense of spontaneity— they will not be able to foresee what comes next. There are all kinds of calculated surprises you can spring on your victims— sending a letter from out of the blue, showing up unexpectedly, taking them to a place they have never been. But best of all are surprises that reveal something new about your character. Reliability is fine for drawing people in, but stay reliable and you stay a bore. Dogs are reliable, a seducer is not. Use the Demonic Power of Words to Sow Confusion Inflame people’s emotions with loaded phrases, flatter them, comfort their insecurities, envelop them in fantasies, sweet words, and promises, and not only will they listen to you, they will lose their Will to resist you. A woman was beautiful, yet lacked confidence in her own wit and intelligence? He made sure to say that he was bewitched not by her beauty but by her mind. Pay Attention to Detail Poeticize Your Presence 70 JF MAG 2019!