Play by their rules, enjoy what they enjoy, adapt
yourself to their moods. In doing so you will stroke their
deep-rooted narcissism and lower their defenses.
Create Temptation
As the serpent tempted Eve with the promise of
forbidden knowledge, you must awaken a desire in your
targets that they cannot control. Find that weakness of
theirs, that fantasy that has yet to be realized, and hint
that you can lead them toward it.
Find that childhood insecurity, that lack in their life, and
you hold the key to tempting them. Their weakness may
be greed, vanity, boredom, some deeply repressed
desire, a hunger for forbidden fruit. They signal it in
little details that elude their conscious control: their style
of clothing, an offhand comment.
Phase 2: Lead Astray — Creating Pleasure and
Confusion
Keep Them In Suspense, what comes next?
Behave in a way that leaves them wondering, What are
you up to? Doing something they do not expect from you
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