You can be dangerous, naughty, even somewhat vulgar,
depending on the tastes of your victim. But never be
ordinary or limited. In poetry (as opposed to reality),
anything is possible.
The only thing that cannot be idealized is mediocrity,
but there is nothing seductive about mediocrity. There is
no possible way to seduce without creating some kind of
fantasy and poeticization.
Disarm Through Strategic Weakness and Vulnerability
The best way to cover your tracks is to make the other
person feel superior and stronger. If you seem to be
weak, vulnerable, enthralled by the other person, and
unable to control yourself, you will make your actions
look more natural, less calculated.
Remember: what is natural to your character is
inherently seductive. A person’s vulnerability, what they
seem to be unable to control, is often what is most
seductive about them.
A woman, for instance, may be attracted by a man’s
strength and self-confidence, but too much of it can
create fear, seeming unnatural, even ugly.
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