by contradiction, by having conflicting traits.Saintliness.
Most of us must compromise constantly to survive;
saints do not. They must live out their ideals without
caring about the consequences. The saintly effect
bestows charisma.Eloquence. A Charismatic relies on the
power of words.Theatricality. A Charismatic is larger
than life, has extra presence.Uninhibitedness. Most
people are repressed, and have little access to their
unconscious— a problem that creates opportunities for
the Charismatic, who can become a kind of screen on
which others project their secret fantasies and
longings.Fervency. You need to believe in something,
and to believe in it strongly enough for it to animate all
your gestures and make your eyes light
up.Vulnerability. Charismatics display a need for love
and affection.Adventurousness. Charismatics are
unconventional.Magnetism. If any physical attribute is
crucial in seduction, it is the eyes. They reveal
excitement, tension, detachment, without a word being
spoken.
People do not want to hear that your power comes from
years of effort or discipline. They prefer to think that it
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