comes from your personality, your character, something
you were born with.
Stars are ethereal and envelop themselves in mystery.
People are hopelessly susceptible to myth, so make
yourself the hero of a great drama. And keep your
distance— let people identify with you without being
able to touch you. They can only watch and dream.
First, you must have such a large presence that you can
fill your target’s mind the way a close-up fills the screen.
Second, cultivate a blank, mysterious face, the center
that radiates Starness.
The Anti-Seducer: those who repel
Anti-Seducers come in many shapes and kinds, but
almost all of them share a single attribute, the source of
their repellence: insecurity.
It is critical to recognize anti-seductive qualities not only
in others but also in ourselves. Almost all of us have one
or two of the Anti-Seducer’s qualities latent in our
character, and to the extent that we can consciously root
them out, we become more seductive.
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