Joy feelings magazine Feb 2020 | Page 59

Then you need to listen to my friend David Nihill. He went from being mortally terrified of public speaking to doing stand up comedy at sold out shows and winning storytelling awards … and he did it in just one year. He wrote a guest post for us on 8 ways to be more funny. Check it out here. Step #7: Read Nonverbal Cues of Attraction Want to know if someone is into you? Pay more attention to body language and flirtation. Men and women do this very differently: For example, women show their desirability by tilting their head to expose their neck (a prime erogenous zone). Men stand up straight, square the shoulders, plant their feet slightly more than shoulder width apart and display their hands. As you get better at reading and responding to body language, you’ll notice people finding you more charismatic and responding to you better. “Fake it til you make it” is a tired and overused phrase. People sense desperation and