We also like seeing people’s faces because it puts us at ease. A
smile makes us smile, and body language fosters empathy and
a sense of feeling connected to another person. Which as you
can imagine works in your favor big time when asking
someone out.
Plus, asking in person makes you look brave and serves as
good practice for the date! If you can’t handle talking to them
in person, how can you handle meeting for coffee?
However, there is also a downside to in person: There’s no
hiding.
If you know that you will be too nervous to use confident body
language or take in their cues, then phone or email might be a
better option for you. So let’s review the options and tips.
Asking Someone Out In-Person:
Smile and make eye contact, but don’t stare. If you find
yourself getting nervous, briefly glance at their shoulder or
another part of their face.