Be flexible. They may say no … only because they’re busy
that weekend or they hate Italian food. They may make a new
suggestion, which is great news for you because compromise
means they want to make this work.
Be cool and casual. You’re not a salesperson, and you’re not
closing a deal. If the person says yes, smile and say great.
Never be pushy or make them uncomfortable.
Step #4: Digital or In-Person?
Building confidence, talking to people, gaining their trust?
Those things take time and practice. Here’s the good news:
asking someone out only takes a few seconds! The question is:
Do you ask someone out in person, through text, online,
through email, on social media, on a dating app…?
I think this is an essential part of your success. You want to
pick the method that makes YOU most comfortable. Of course,
I will always recommend in-person because you can easily
read their body language and gauge how they’re taking it,
modify your behavior accordingly and either quickly redirect
or run.