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Let's face it: If a person is
getting his or her sexual
needs met on the side
(with regular porn use or
in-vivo), he or she is likely
to be less interested in sex
at home.
Should You Be
Worried?
Happily, less sex does not
automatically equate to
less love, happiness and
fulfillment. For most
couples, especially those
who've been together for a
number of years,
companionship, reliability
and a sense of mutual trust
are far more meaningful
than a lot of hot, sweaty
sex. Sure, there are
couples out there who've
been married for 30 years
who're still hot for each
other, and good for them.
For the rest of us, our
libidos tend to droop in
tandem with our aging
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body parts. Diminishing
hormone levels, the aging
process
and the distractions of life
tend to lower our sex
drives (and our ability to
perform), and there's not a
whole lot we can do about
it.
Of course, if you and your
partner have gone several
weeks or even months
without sex and the lack
of activity is troubling
you, you may want to
consider some changes.
Usually a little bit of effort
is enough to revive a
flagging sex life,
especially if the emotional
connection between you
and your partner remains
strong. Often in such cases
the real issue is that things
have gone a little stale. If
you find that to be the case
in your relationship, try