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4th Week – Mindfulness of Thoughts
by Gil Fronsdal
Sometimes people think that the point of meditation is to stop
thinking -- to have a silent mind. This does happen occasionally, but
it is not necessarily the point of meditation. Thoughts are an
important part of life, and mindfulness practice is not supposed to be
a struggle against them. It's more useful to be friends with our
thoughts than thinking them unfortunate distractions. In mindfulness,
we are not stopping thoughts as much as overcoming any
preoccupation we have with them.
Mindfulness is not thinking about things. (It is not "meditating on"
some topic, as people often say.) It is a non-discursive observation of
our life in all its aspects. In those moments when thinking
predominates, mindfulness is the clear and silent awareness that we
are thinking. I found it helpful and relaxing when someone said, "For
the purpose of meditation, nothing is particularly worth thinking
about." Thoughts can come and go as they wish, and the meditator
does not need to become involved with them. We are not interested
in engaging in the content of our thoughts; mindfulness of thinking is
simply recognizing we are thinking.
In meditation, when thoughts are subtle and in the background, or
when random thoughts pull you away from awareness of the present,
it is enough to resume mindfulness of breathing. However, when
your preoccupation with thoughts is stronger than your ability to
easily let go of them, then direct your mindfulness to being clearly
aware that thinking is occurring.
Strong bouts of thinking are fuelled largely by identification and
preoccupation with thoughts. By clearly observing our thinking, we
step outside the field of identification. Thinking will usually then
soften to a calm and unobtrusive stream.
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