International Tutors' Magazine June 2019 | Page 5

JUNE 2019 Fel Castañeda, Senior International Tutor Countries: Colombia, Costa Rica, Canada Languages: English, Spanish, French, a little Cantonese Q: How is connection important to you? Connection is the way for us to show empathy and compassion. As social beings, we use connections to fulfil our desires not to feel alone. Of course, individuals are all different, and we bond over different things, but the need for connection is the same – this is what makes us human. This is what humanity is always looking for. Q: In what ways can we can bond with each other? Art, food, home, literature… it's less about the culture which the individual is brought up in, and more about shared experiences that go beyond a specific space and time. No one exists in isolation. Q: What connections have you noticed here in HK? I’ve noticed a disconnect between students and their education. Students have the desire to connect, Left: Studying in Canada. Right: Making friends. certainly, but the system sometimes leaves them disengaged. Students often focus on their grades, but not on the process of gaining skills. The mentality discourages them from finding greater purpose. This is happening in much of modern society, which, unfortunately, promotes such values. Eventually, people become indifferent and lose hope and passion, as well as the drive for changing for the good. It boils down to being honest with oneself while striving to do better in different ways. Only then can we build a genuine connection with ourselves and our potentials. COMMUNITY SPOTLIGHT BY RACHEL LAI Noga Zaborowski, International Tutor Countries: USA, Israel, Brazil Languages: English, Hebrew, Portuguese, a little Cantonese Q: How is connection important to you? To me, connection is super important. I think empathy is pretty much the most important value in the world, and empathy is what you need to make connections. I think a lot of global issues and inequalities exist partially from a lack of empathy. In the end, we’re very social beings. Everything we do is somehow motivated by our relationships with other people and our desires to influence them. Q: Now that you have been at EdUHK for a year, how have your connections changed? The longer I've lived here, the more I've learned about the local mindset. At first, I thought life in Hong Kong was completely different than what I encountered previously in the West. But as time goes on and I adapt to the patterns of Hong Kong life, I understand people’s actions and thinking more and more. I think it’s been really good to live in Tai Po for this reason, as I can connect with “more local” life rather than the expat-heavy world of the Island. Q: What’s been your strongest connection in HK? Definitely language. I’ve been learning Cantonese this year, which has helped me connect with people a lot better, from students in the halls to shop ladies at the market. People are always surprised to hear me speaking even a few broken words! Language is such a powerful tool, opening the door for further conversation and connection. I hope to keep working on my Gwondungwa even if I leave Hong Kong! Left: With family. Right: On top of Hong Kong. 5