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1 General inquiry about results. No questions about the action plan or tasking assignments, only inquiring how things are going in general sense more in sense of small talk. 0 No questions about results. No questions about how the coachee is doing, no exploration into changes, no holding accountable for tasks in the action plan. 9) Facilitation To cerate a safe environment and context that makes it easy for a coachee to answer questions, explore ideas, and translate his or her outcomes into actual behaviors and skills in life. To make easier. 5 Coachee accessing powerful resources and desired outcome. Eliciting the most powerful resources in coachee for outcomes, seeing desired behavior in coachee, giving a great sense of support and respect in the coachee (see Supporting). Asking about supporting beliefs, decisions, states, and asking questions that use these resources. 4 Coachee taking steps. Using effective transition words, phrases, and stages that allow the coachee to move smoothly from one step or stage to the next. Fully pacing the coachee's matrix of frames (e.g., beliefs, values, etc.). Receiving comments from the coachee that "each step just feels natural." Asking about and working to eliminate interferences. 3 Fully pacing and relevant questions. Fully pacing the coachee, asking questions that are completely relevant and useful for coachee to move from one stage of development in achieving his or her outcomes. Giving or eliciting step-by-step awareness of how the processes will occur. Giving overviews and details appropriate to the coachee. Eliciting responses (see Inducing States). 42