How to Coach Yourself and Others Popular Models for Coaching | Page 203

on identifying the smallest changes which have led in the desired direction, thereby becoming aware of the forces that support them. • Constructivism: If there is no objective reality , and if each of us constructs our reality on the basis of our subjective awareness, why not help our coachees to construct as helpful a reality for themselves as possible? The Miracle Question, for example, often helps coachees leave old and restrictive ways of thinking behind, and develop solutions in an unencumbered and creative manner. The more 'exceptions' that the coachee can identi