How to Coach Yourself and Others Popular Models for Coaching | Page 142

• A. (Activating event) Drunk people outside, making some noise. • B. (irrational Belief (iB) I have about A) They MUST NOT make any noise. • C. (Consequences of having those beliefs about A) When noisy drunk people pass in the street outside late at night and wake me up. I Feel angry. It feels bad. I lay awake feeling angry and upset and do not get back to sleep for a long time. • D. (Dispute the irrational Beliefs (iB’s) in B by turning them into questions and answers) WHY shouldn't they make any noise- where is that comman