How to Coach Yourself and Others How to Influence, Persuade and Motivate | Page 428

If we are not growing, than we will tend to stagnate and experience bouts of dissatisfaction at a deeply profound conscious or unconscious level of awareness. How can I persuade others by stimulating their Need for Growth? Need for Contribution In order to experience the pinnacle of fulfillment and satisfaction in life, we will need to satisfy the Need for Contribution. We will naturally seek to fulfill this Need by working towards a worthy cause that has benefits for others and to the wider society in general. When the Need for Contribution has been obtained, than this naturally signifies that all the other 5 Human Needs have also been fulfilled to a high degree. How can I persuade others by stimulating their Need for Contribution? Pleasure Seeking Motivators Pleasure is the most powerful emotional need that drives our behavior, decisions and actions. It is an overwhelming force that motivates people to undertake temporary periods of pain for the eventual experience of pleasure that awaits them at the end of the tunnel. As such, utilizing pleasure to persuade other people to your way of thinking is one of the most effective tools available in your arsenal. The following presents a list of common Human Motivators you can stimulate throughout the persuasive process to persuade others to your ideas or ways of thinking. As you read through this list, persistently ask yourself, how you could utilize this information to persuade another person to support your idea or accept your way of thinking? 428