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4.9 DEALING
PEOPLE

WITH

DIFFICULT

http://www.wikihow.com/Deal-With-Impossible-People
Most people with personality disorders have what is sometimes
referred to as "disorders of the self," because they often don’t
believe that there is anything wrong with them. They think, “This
is me,” or “This is the way I have always been,” and selfpreservation makes them want to stay that way. Personality
disordered people are the ones who usually come to mind when
we think of the term, “toxic person.” Here are some insights and
steps for dealing with these highly difficult - even, impossible people
Steps
1. Recognize that impossible people exist; there isn't a
thing you can do about it. The first step is all about facing
reality: if you think you might be dealing with an impossible
person, you're probably right. When in doubt, proceed as
instructed below. The headaches you save will be your own.
2. Do not call them out because it will frustrate them. They
could become more difficult, but just stand your ground and
be confident.
3. Be aware that some people simply aren't compatible.
Sometimes, a person who gets along with everybody else
quite well is an impossible person for you personally. Most
relationships between people contain many shades of gray,
but some people simply mix as well as oil and water. It is
common to hear your impossible person proclaim that
"Everyone else likes me." This is an attempt to shift the blame
to you, so don't buy it. It doesn't matter how this person
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