Relationship Fix Tip #5: Know Your Needs, and Know
Your Partner's Needs.
When we enter a relationship, we have needs that we want to be fulfilled by
another person. Now, this doesn't mean you have insecurities that you want
another person to heal. This means you have basic needs, such as wanting
to love and wanting to be loved, that you want to share with another person.
In many relationships, needs that haven't been met for a while can cause a
relationship to weaken and eventually end up broken. This also requires you to do
more self-reflection on yourself and see if your needs are being met. This tip
requires you to know your partner's needs and see if you're meeting them, too.
What you can do is talk to your mate to see if you're meeting his needs. Ask
him what he wants in your relationship with him. Of course, this doesn't mean
that unrealistic expectations should be put on you or him. It just means basic
needs should be met in order to have a happy and healthy relationship.
However, if he's not sure about his needs himself, it may help to take time apart
from each other and allow him to figure himself out. You can't control what
another person wants or needs. That's why space may help in this situation.
Note: To better understand your need and your partner’s need especially
when it comes to the bedroom, you can check out Felicity Keith’s Language of
Desire. It contain some vital information and resource.