Relationship Fix Tip # 3 : Be Happy With Yourself .
There ' s a difference between sharing your love and life experiences with your man and expecting your man to make you happy all the time . It ' s true that you ' re in a relationship with someone you have strong feelings for ; but it doesn ' t mean that you have to depend on him or the relationship to make you happy . If you think that you ' re expecting too much of your partner or you ' re trying to fill your insecurities by demanding love and attention from your man , it ' s time to step back and take a good look at yourself .
Relationships aren ' t meant to be a temporary self-confidence boost . Being in a committed relationship with someone means sharing each other ' s love and happiness and sharing each other ' s lives . You ' re giving part of yourself to someone else , and that ' s a sacred union . Take time for yourself , and think about these questions : Are you expecting too much from your partner ? Are you unhappy with yourself in any way and projecting those insecurities on others ?
Instead of depending on others , especially your man , to make you happy , learn more about yourself and find out what makes you happy . Figure out what will make your life a great one , even on your own . Remember that your relationship is a part of you , albeit a big one . But it doesn ' t define you , even if being with your boyfriend , fiancé or husband makes you happy .
Avoid depending on your relationship to make you happy completely . Learn about yourself ; love yourself ; and be happy with yourself . Don ' t lose yourself because you ' re in a relationship .