Relationship Fix Tip #2: Stop Bottling it in.
Most women tend to bottle their feelings and thoughts up and expect their
man to figure out what's bothering them. But you're only making your
relationship more stressful than it needs to be.
Whenever you think something is wrong with your relationship or you're
bothered by something and want to talk to your partner about it, go ahead
and share. Don't wait around thinking that you're giving off hints and your
man should catch onto them. When it comes to serious matters, such as fixing
your relationship, you don't want to play these mind games.
Take some time off to talk to your man about anything that's not making you
happy. If you continue lock away your feelings and thoughts and letting them
fester, you only hurt yourself and, as a result, you hurt your relationship as well.
If it helps, write out your thoughts and feelings first to release yourself from
the burden of bottling them up for a while. Then, you can sort out your feelings
and thoughts and share them with your partner at the right time. When you're
opening up to your man, don't lash out on him unreasonably. It may be a hard
pill to swallow, but you're responsible for deciding to share or to bottle up your
feelings. Have a calm conversation, and see how you can solve any relationship
issues with your partner.