Healthy Mama Magazine SPECIAL RED Edition - Feb 2015 | Page 55

feature LIFESTYLE Expanding the Envelope Compassion of a Method for Beating Anger A By Leo Babauta from Zen Habits lmost every time we get angry, it’s because something isn’t going our way. I’ve been practicing a method for processing anger that I call Expanding the Envelope of Compassion. Before we talk about the method, let’s look at the progression of anger. Here’s what happens: • We want something a certain way. • Other people or occasionally, the Universe doesn’t give us that something in that certain way. • We get mad. And sometimes we lose control. HEALTHY MAMA MAGAZINE 55