Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 4 Issue - 4, 1 October 2019 | Page 41

extra conscious effort in nurturing, and in its care. Only sowing the
seeds were not enough.
From time to time it requires to put fertilisers to be trimmed then uproot
the extra weeds, maintain wild growth creates its beauty. Carelessness,
neglect, taking it for granted at any point of time could have spoilt the
enchanting beauty. Leaving it at the mercy of god would also have been
a great mistake.
In same manner for cordial, compatible, beautiful relationship one must
put in ‘Conscious Effort’ of time and invest energy in it. Never ever take
the relationship for granted instead plan and consciously try to maintain
the liveliness with moments of new experiences. Age is no bar; years of
togetherness can’t stale a relationship they are all limiting believes or
excuses.
If you aim at having beautiful relation with your spouse or even others in
your life, your conscious efforts towards it and certainly the desire will
lead you to beautiful relationship.
How?
Exploring together the new experiences, spending time together,
planning and giving beautiful surprises (there are many fun outdoor
activities, believe me watching your near dear ones and equally
participating in it is really worthy and joyful experience.) New ventures
together are great tools to building healthy, warm, beautiful relationship.
We have hell lot of time for other activities (and not that they are not
important ) like work, phones, net, socialising etc. but we take for
granted our close relationships. Our attitude towards our relationships is,
where will they go, they are always there for me and beside me.
There are many other important things in life which needs to be taken
care of. Our focus turns towards things which we fear ‘of not having in
life’.
As it takes efforts to please boss, socialise consciously to build on social
stature, entertain ourselves by playing virtual games on phone etc. We
have also forgotten playing games with friends and relatives which are
more relaxing and joyful. Relationships are generators of various
emotions but at the same time they make us emotionally intelligent for
they make us capable of dealing with different emotions as stress and