Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 4 Issue - 4, 1 October 2019 | Page 40

The most talked about relationship after a child and parent relationship,
is of two souls tied in a bond called ‘MARRIAGE’. This one should have
a primary focus. Cause, the amount of time, the nearness, the
togetherness, the bond, the creativity, the love, the intimacy, its warmth,
the coziness, many emotions are embarked upon through this one
relationship.
In the intimacy of two bodies, promise of love and commitment is
embraced. Two people share their space and resources. They find their
identities together explore their purpose together. A very long period of
life is spent together in each other’s company. Hence, this relation
should be more cordial, compatible , comfortable and beautiful. So now
what we need is, to work on it and to work for it.
How can one have beautiful relationships?
As every pain has some aid to relieve it and as every problem has a
solution if we look for it. In same way every person can work towards a
beautiful relationship.
Let me unlock the secret to a beautiful warm, cozy, relationship.
What is that one thing which is needed for a beautiful, intimate, fulfilling
relationship, the secret to it is ‘Conscious Effort’.
What is Conscious effort?
It is deliberate, intentional, careful attention is given, and one’s energy is
put to accomplish something worthy
A wiseman once said that in life, in whichever area one puts their
energy, It gives a person, good and desired results. Be it relationship,
your work, your children, your health or path to spirituality. One must
consciously work towards it.
Metaphor
There is a lush green garden, nicely trimmed, maintained grass with
beautiful flowering and decorative plants and trees, a view soothing to
heart, give tranquillity to mind, freshness to breathe, a pleasurable sight,
a possession, a dream of a nature lover. The blissful, a splendid piece of
land, is the result of conscious effort of the caretaker of that garden.
He has devoted time and invested energy in the garden. Has taken that