Healing and Hypnotherapy Volume 4 Issue- 10, 1 April 2020 | Page 13

Although this article won’t directly answer all the questions above, I have provided the tools, techniques, teachings, and resources you will need to make the big changes – all tried and tested by yours truly. So from my heart to yours, I sincerely hope this article helps to catalyze deep and nourishing changes in your life. TABLE OF CONTENTS • What is Self-Love? • 18 Profound Benefits of Self-Love • Why is it So Damn Hard For Us to Love Ourselves? • Is Self-Love Selfish? • What Science Says About Self-Love • The Dark Side of Self-Love • How to Prevent Others From Dragging You Down • Is it Possible to “Love Yourself Unconditionally”? • How to Love Yourself More 1 Learn to be discerning and say “NO, that’s not true” 2 Be your own best friend 3 Change the way you perceive your flaws 4 Practice loving all that arises 5 Learn the art of self-care 6 Be your own advocate and stand up for yourself 7 Explore the core beliefs that keep you small What is Self-Love? In short, self love is the forgiveness, acceptance, and respect for who you are deep down – all your beautiful and hideous parts included. When you love yourself, you take care of yourself, you honour your limitations, you listen to your needs and you respect your dreams enough to act on them. When you love yourself, your happiness, health, and fulfilment are all of supreme importance because you realise that without loving yourself, you will never be able to genuinely love others. 18 Profound Benefits of Self-Love Self-love illuminates, improves, and deepens every aspect of life. Here are some of the MANY benefits of learning how to love yourself more: • • • • • • More tolerance of your flaws and weaknesses More self-confidence More self-forgiveness Healthier mindset (and less self-sabotaging thoughts) Improved ability to discover and fulfill your personal destiny Increased love, acceptance, and compassion for yourself