HAWKESBURY INDEPENDENT | Page 32

kids corner Saying NO by Penny Webb The Alannah and Madeline Foundation is aiming to reduce bullying within schools and raise awareness of the seriousness and long term impacts bullying can have on young people as part of National Buddy Day on June 12. Sadly, it seems that everyone has a story about bullying, whether they’ve witnessed it, heard about it from someone else or experienced it as a victim. 27 per cent of young people report they are bullied every two weeks or more often. At Arndell College in Oakville, a group of teachers and students decided it was time to update the anti-bullying policy and took active steps to increase awareness of bullying and build trust within the school community. Lauren Kenny is an English teacher at Arndell and was part of a committee that helped rewrite antibul lying processes and procedures. “The first thing we did was create an anonymous survey for the students to complete. We wanted to see where we were and understand what type of bullying was taking place,” Miss Kenny explains. “From there we focused on students being an Upstander which means standing up against bullying.” Senior members of the student body took part in the committee and also a number of workshops that equipped them with the knowledge to identify bullying behaviour and also ways to help younger children being bullied. Workshops and activities were also held with younger members of the school community, focusing on specific areas that were relevant to that group. ‘For example, with boys we concentrated on how what is seen as friendly banter can actually be quite hurtful and we addressed the stereotype of the physical side of bullying,” Ms Kenny says. “For girls in Year 7 and 8, we focus on building resilience and selfesteem. It can be such a vulnerable time for them at that age.” While bullying within playgrounds across Australia has unfortunately always been part of the playground landscape, the introduction of social media and cyber-bullying has added a whole new element to the challenges children, teachers and parents face. Cyberbullying happens to about one in five young Australians every few weeks or more often. Leonie Smith is a cyber-safety expert and works with the police, schools and parents to minimise cyber-bullying. “The effects of cyber-bullying can be devastating for a child. The internet breeds anonymity. If a child doesn’t know who is bullying them, they simply don’t know where they are safe and feel that they can’t confide in anyone,” Leonie says. “A common misconception that parents have is that children are smarter than adults with technology. Children may know how to navigate a site or device but they don’t have street smarts. Parents need to provide life experience and support both online and off.” Miss Kenny talks about the importance of providing that support as a school community as one of their strategies in tackling bullying in all its forms head on. “Anti-bullying activities that focus on positive relationships helps reinforce relationships between younger and older students. We want children to know they can speak to an older student or teacher if they are being targeted,” she explains. Parents also need to keep an eye on behaviours at home Tuition that makes a difference Most School Subjects • Pre-school to Adults set the foundation for educational success! 4 Week Money Back Guarantee Term Reports and Free Diagnostic enrolling now Call us for your child’s educational needs HSC • Selective Skills Exams • Art Classes SCAN THE QR CODE TO DOWNLOAD OUR FREE APP! or SEARCH THE APP STORE FOR “MASTER COACHING PENRITH” PHONE 4722 3072 www.mastercoachingpenrith.com.au 32 ISSUE 61 // June 2015 HAWKESBURY DISTRICT INDEPENDENT NEWS www.hdinews.com.au