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not have this chandlo may not remain sincere.
Questioner : Dada you have talked about how men
should behave, but what should women do? What should
women have in their two eyes?
Dadashri : A woman should accept her husband, no
matter what he is like. The man she took as her husband is due
to her own karmic account. It is by no coincidence that she
married the man she did, so regardless of what her husband is
like, she should make the effort to remain faithful to him. If she
is not able to do so, then she should ask for his forgiveness.
This however, should be her vision and she should think about
how they both can progress spiritually. How they can both go
into a higher life form in their next lives. How they can both
attain liberation. This is what she should think about and focus
on.
[20] RESULTS OF DIVORCE
Do you like differences of opinions? When there are
differences in opinions, it will create discord. Excess discord
results in a divorce.
Questioner : From the perspective of daily living, are
our conflicts due to differences of opinions or differences in our
thinking?
Dadashri : For all those who have not received the
Gnan of Self realization, all differences are differences of
opinions. For those who have self-realization, theirs is a
difference in thinking. Differences in thinking do not cause hurt.
A difference in opinion causes major conflicts and discord.
Questioner : Is it better to have a lesser difference of
opinion?
Dadashri : People who aim to get along with each other