20
Harmony in Marriage
husband?” But what can she do now? She is dependent upon
him. She has no option left. If it were a woman from the
western world, she would have left him the very next day. But
how can an Indian lady leave, when she is tied and bound?
There is no place for fighting. If there was, they would definitely
kill each other!
There are some men who are so petty that they make
their wives move their bag if it happens to be standing next to
theirs! You fool! You are a married man and you went through
a marriage ceremony. Have you not both become one? The
husband even refers to his wife as his ‘other half’. What kind
of a man are you? Why do you refer to her as your ‘other
half’? Does this ‘other half’ not apply to your bags also? Who
are we ridiculing, the men or the women? Do people not use
the term ‘my other half’?
Questioner : They do.
Dadashri : Then they change their minds. The women
don’t cause such problems. If he were to pack his jeans in her
bag, she wouldn’t say anything. But these men have such big
egos; their ego is always poised to strike upon the slightest of
irritation, just like a scorpion. Keep in mind I am telling you this
from my own past experiences so that you too can understand
what I have experienced. By hearing this, y