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been born a man, realize that not all men are equal. Many men
are like women. They have a few characteristics of a woman
(e.g. deceit). If this deceit disappears either by becoming a sati
or by acquiring Self-realization through meeting a Gnani
Purush, then a woman will attain liberation. In becoming a Sati,
everything will be clear and then he or she will attain moksh.
Do you understand a little of what I am saying? On the way to
liberation, every woman has to become either a Sati, or a man.
Men are very naive; they will do whatever is asked of them.
Women have taken advantage of all men. Of all the women,
only a Sati would not do so. A sati would regard her husband
as her lord.
Questioner : You see a very few people with this kind
of a life.
Dadashri : How can there be such lives in this Kaliyug
(current time cycle of lack of unity in thoughts, speech and
acts)? Even in Satyug (time cycle of truth and unity of thought,
speech and acts) there were very few Satis. So how can there
be any in Kaliyug?
So the women are not at fault; women are like
goddesses. The soul is the soul, whether it be in form of a man
or a woman, the only difference is of the packing, the physical
body. Being a woman is an effect of a kind and this effect
works on the Soul because of the presence of ignorance. With
the knowledge of the Self, this effect of a woman does not
work on the Soul. This is liberation. Woman is a shakti (power,
energy). In this country many women have been great in
government and politics. Imagine her potential in the field of
religion. They have the power to liberate the world. Women are
a store of energy for the salvation of the world. She has enough
energy to achieve her own liberation and help others achieve
the same.