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[23] WHEN SEX STOPS, LOVE STARTS
When does a married life become radiant? It is only
when both the husband and the wife have a fever (Dada is
referring to sexual relationship) that they take medicine (have
sex). Would anyone take medicine without having a fever? If
sexual activity takes place when one of the partners does not
have a desire for it, then that married life does not shine. You
should take the medicine only if you both have the fever. This
is the only medicine. Just because the medicine is sweet, it does
not mean you have to take it every day. For a marriage to be
harmonious the man needs to control his passion for sex. All
these animals have no control over passion. All great men and
women of the past, like Rama, Sita, and others, had control
over their passions. Lack of control is a bestial quality. This
world is not aware of the dangers of sex. In just a single sexual
act, fi