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and told me what he was doing and asked me what she was
to do. She wanted to break away. I told her that if she can find
a husband who will be faithful to her completely then she might
leave her current husband. Otherwise where was she going to
find a better one? As such, her husband had only one mistress.
I told her that was good under the circumstances. She should
let go of the matter and she should keep an open mind because
she would not find a better husband.
In this era, you cannot find a good husband or even a
good wife. All these are trash and garbage goods. There are no
good men or women to choose from. This current time is not
meant for choosing, it is meant for settling past accounts. As far
as you are concerned, you have to settle past accounts. But
instead men and women are preoccupied in trying to behave as
husband and wife. Instead people are complicating their
accounts further by taking too much interest in their marriage.
You pitiful people! You just have to settle everything here. Take
the approach, which has the least amount of conflicts, and settle
your accounts. There is not much time left.
Questioner : Dada, whatever events unfold, are they
because of our past accounts?
Dadashri : Without account they would never meet.
As long as the world exists, there will be wounds. The
wife will say that her wounds will never heal and yet she plunges
back into the worldly life and the wounds do heal. This is what
I call ‘a stupor of fascination’. This fascination exists because of
her moha (attachment to worldly life). Because of her moha,
she forgets. It is because if this moha that her wounds heal. If
these wounds did not heal, then one would get vairaagya
(non-attachment to worldly things). What is the definition of
‘moha’? It is when many things have been experienced, but
that experience is forgotten. While getting a divorce, a man