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run the motel; he just stays cooped up within the four walls of
the house, so what then should be done?
Dadashri : What else can you do about it? There is no
guarantee that you will find another one who is better than him.
Questioner : Yes that is for sure.
Dadashri : If the second husband is worse and if he
abuses you, then what will you do? It happens to many women.
Their first husbands were better by far and they were better off.
Is it not necessary for people to understand this?
Questioner : If we leave it up to Dada, then will we get
a better husband the second time?
Dadashri : He may turn out to be nice, but after three
years he may have a heart attack, so what will you do then?
This world is full of danger. It is better if you just tell yourself
that things are meant to be the way they are and that you should
accept whatever occurs. Accept it as correct. Accept it. That
is better for you.
The first husband is generally good. The second is
generally unfaithful. He is looking for something like this. He is
wandering around looking for someone and she too is a
wanderer, which is why they meet each other. It’s like two
wandering cattle coming together. Instead the first one is
preferable. He may be useless, but at least you know what he
was like. At least he will not strangle you in the night and you
can be sure of that, whereas the second one may strangle you.
You should compromise just for the sake of the children.
Even when there is only one